O.K. The past week has been crazy.
As you know, my family is in town and I have been showing them around. We were planning on going to Paris for the weekend but when we went down to the train station, all the trains to Paris were booked. So, we made a split second decision to go to Rome instead. And my 82 year old grandmother could not have been more excited about this. Actually I think they were all excited. The only problem: I JUST WENT TO ROME. But there were some things that I didn’t see the first time around that I was still curious about.
So Friday morning out train was departing at like 8 in the morning. No big deal right… well I missed the train. And until about eleven that morning I had no clue that the rest of my family was having just as crazy of a morning as I was.
I’ll start with my story: I woke up late that morning and knew that there was no way I was going to make it to the train by eight. I don’t know what happened. I’m pretty sure I just slept straight through my alarm. So I was debating whether or not to even go. I mean I JUST WENT TO ROME. But it did not take me long to come to the conclusion that I would get the next available train out of Torino to Rome. By 1:30 I was on my way to Rome to meet with my Aunt Helen and Meme around 6 Friday evening in the Roman train station – Termini.
Meanwhile, my Aunt Helen and my Meme had arrived in Rome around 2 and went straight to the hotel. There they had some drama about the room they had booked. In the words of my Aunt “It was a flea bag.” Also, the people running the “flea bag” wanted my 82 year old grandmother to climb four flights of stairs. When my Aunt told them that she read on the internet there was an elevator they all the sudden couldn’t speak English… convenient. Well, after arguing with the managers of the hotel about their cancellation policy and whatever else (I have no clue because at this point I was still on the train on my way to Rome) they finally got in a decent hotel with no fleas and an elevator.
Now I bet you’re wondering… what happened to Mom? Well, Mom woke up Friday morning to an email from Dad saying that her dad and my Papa – who has been in hospice for the past week or so – was being put on oxygen. So she made a split second decision to go to the Torino airport Friday morning to do whatever it took to get the next flight back to the states. She needed to be home to support her mother, my Nana, through this hard time. When she got to the airport, from what I have gathered so far, it was almost impossible to find anyone to speak English. And after a conversation with someone in broken English but mostly hand gestures, she managed to find out that the first flight she could get on was the next day. So she sat at the airport for around 24 hours, reading and people watching I’m sure. But before she could make it back her dad had passed away that Saturday morning. She arrived in Jackson Saturday evening at 8:30.
I can’t speak for her but I am at peace with the whole thing. He lived a very long life and he had been sick for quite some time. Also, while I was living at home in January and February I got the opportunity to spend a lot of time with him. I had also discussed with Nana what I would do if this happened while I was gone. She told me that there was nothing that I could do by coming home and that she would prefer I stay in Italy. So by her wishes, I will stay here in Italy and remember his influence in my life in a very positive light.
Back to my journey to Rome: As I was sitting on a bench waiting for my train to Rome (basically in tears about the information I had just received about Mom and Papa) I came to the conclusion that I would maintain a positive attitude in Rome, despite Mom’s absence. I mean this was Meme’s first time in Europe and I wanted it to be a good experience.
And Rome was beautiful…. again.
I almost have the audio guide for the Vatican memorized now. I got to see the Castelo S. Angelo and the Paletine.
Right now I am on my way back to Torino via high speed train. Tomorrow I will spend some more time with my Aunt and Grandmother then they will leave on Tuesday morning and I will lock myself up and study for my exams the next six weeks. I am hoping I can pass them all the first time so that I have the rest of July to travel around Europe to visit some friends.